Love and Marriage

Aphrodite was an ancient goddess with a contemporary outlook. She was married to the craft god Hephaistos but he didn’t put the requisite sizzle into the union. So she bade her betrothed adieu and took solace in the strong arms of Ares, god of war. But the ultimate key to her heart was not strength, but sweetness — and this she found in Adonis.

Eros, Aphrodite’s son, accidentally wounded her bosom with one of his arrows. Reeling from the wound, she took solace in her mineral pool, the famed Baths of Aphrodite on the Akamas Peninsula of Cyprus. The hunter Adonis was within sight that day, and the love he inspired in Aphrodite was the greatest and most painful she would ever know.

She told the proud mortal (who was born from a myrrh tree): “Your youth and beauty will not touch the hearts of lions and bristly boars. Think of their terrible claws and prodigious strength!”. But Adonis did not heed his beloved’s admonition. While Aphrodite was out spreading the spirit of love and beauty, Adonis pursued a boar which proceeded to trounce and kill him with his tusks. Little did he know this was a jealous Ares in disguise. Aphrodite heard his cries from her swan-drawn chariot, high above the island. Once by his side, she summoned the nymph Menthe (the mint spirit), who sprinkled nectar on his blood, and then by a process as yet unclassified by scientists red anemones sprang forth. Anemos in Greek means wind. The flowers’ blossoms are opened by the same wind that scatters their petals. And yet, each spring, they rise again from the fertile soil of Cyprus.